Been with my boyfriend for a little over a year(him 25, me 25). He broke up with me for 2 weeks to give eachother some space to see what we really wanted after we had a rough patch. I didn’t want the breakup at all, I was completely devastated. However, during the breakup I started to develop mutual feelings for a coworker, feelings that I never saw before my boyfriend and I broke up. My boyfriend and I got back together after 2 weeks, but im still unsure about it because im having a lot of feelings for the other guy. I love my boyfriend, but I don’t know what’s right. The other guy is a few years older than me (me 25, him 28) and he seems really perfect for me, and he’s made it very clear hes very into me. However, I’m trying not to be naive and make a mistake that I may end up regretting. My boyfriend is a great guy, I couldn’t ask for much else from someone. We have always had a very good, loyal and honest relationship, but the breakup that he inflicted seemed to break something inside for me, I just don’t feel the same anymore. I’m starting to feel dishonest because I don’t feel loyal to him anymore and that doesn’t align with my values. Do I leave my boyfriend for this guy? Or do I keep trying in my relationship?
TL;DR: was in a healthy relationship until he broke up with me due to insecurities. I developed feelings for another man who seems to be incredible. Now that my bf and I are back together, unsure on what to do.