Hi everyone I’m looking for some help/advice and to see if this has happened to anyone else.
I’ve noticed that as I keep doing things with my boyfriend (sex, sexting, or over a call, etc…) I get bored or just can’t cum as easily as the first few times we did those things.
It kind of worries me or stresses me out that I am not able to cum as easily or without something extra. 90% of the time I end up fantasizing about him doing something else (that I don’t even want him doing for real, which is confusing), or I will multitask and look at/read porn while we are on a phone call and things are getting steamy.
I end up feeling a bit bad about it because it makes me feel like I’m doing something wrong when he can’t just make me cum on his own but I don’t know how to just focus the way I did the first few times when it was all still new.
How do I stop needing all those extra other things to finish?
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Try to focus your mind, meditation helps
Question: is this a pattern for you? In other words, with previous partners, did you also find yourself feeling bored at some point?