I get so choked up trying to figure out what sounds right vs feels right
Recently I told my guy after he slid inside of me that “I always miss you when you’re not inside me” he seemed to like that and I just blurted it out without thinking too much because it’s true. Honestly, the number of times I think of him in a day and immediately want to be on top of him or kiss him or feel him inside of me or be held by him, as I sit there with such a yearning or desire to touch him or be within range of embrace. I truly feel like I’m addicted or something right now and wondering if the addiction will end, does he feel the same, etc.
But back to the point – I need help learning what else do guys want to hear. Saying “fuck me” and “I love your cock in me” sounds so vulgar to me.
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If you don’t want to swear you can just that you love how he feels inside of you. Just tell him he feels really good, that you can feel him so deep inside of you, tell him when you’re close to orgasm
I think part of this is figuring out what dynamic he’s interested in. Start with more straightforward chats about what you both want in the bedroom, while outside it.
Beyond that, things I’ve found that get some hot and bothered are, “I love it when you make me stretch like that,” “Make me take every bit of that dick,” and a simple “Thank you.”
There’s really nothing else I would personally want to hear than that. I just want to be told what my partner wants so I can give it to them. And if it comes out vulgar then all the better. “I love your cock in me” expresses enthusiasm, that I’m doing things right, and it makes me feel wanted.