Okay so let me try to explain.
My bf is bi, and he was talking to me about how the most powerful orgasm a man can have is when he gets stimulation from his backside, instead of his penis.
I didnt believe him, but he sent me some old videos of himself using a prostate vibrator, and it was HOT AF. His legs and booty wear shaking for like 20 seconds, and he was moaning his brains out.
He normally makes no sounds excepts grunts when he fucks me, but he was being extremely vocal in the video.
The thing that is kinda concerning to me is that it took him 45 minutes to orgasm, when it normally takes him like 20.
I wish I could give him all the pleasures that any of his ex partners gave him and more.
How do I give that to him.
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The prostate is right behind the “entrance” towards his belly. It’s a weird textured spot kind if the size of a walnut. It’s texture makes it pretty different from the surroundings, also it’s pretty hard…it would say like a apple with a slightly bad spot.
With enough lube you can try to do different stuff to that spot, circle around it, push it, poke it, scratch it. It’s depending on him, look for his reaction or ask him if he likes different stuff. If he doesn’t like the communication you can hold hands and have him squeeze yours when he likes something.
Take into consideration to stimulate his dick a but while doing it.
Also, use mire lube when needed, cut and file your nails, you can use a latex glove if you want but it makes the initial finding if the spot a but more difficult. Stroking his legs, stomach and other spots can help as well.
Wow. First of all it’s great that you want to give him that pleasure.
It sounds from your description that he was having a dry prostate orgasm (or several). These can be extremely intense but take a while to build up to.
For massaging his prostate, this is a helpful guide. https://www.bvibe.com/anal-play-101/prostate-massage/?amp
That outlines a range of techniques. Communicate with him to see which he finds most pleasurable. Personally, I like gentle pressure and circular motions (rather than the “come hither” motion).
Now if you add penile stimulation as well, it can be great fun. But it can also make guys cum very fast! Keep the pace slow until you want him to explode. Then enjoy the fireworks 🙂
Pegging would fit the bill nicely
He lies on bed. You kneel between his legs. Lube all over your hands. Dominant hand giving him a handjob while no dominant hand inserts one or two fingers to find the walnut and massage it in a “come here” motion.
If he’s done it before, then just ask him. Lube a finger and get going, he’ll soon give you directions. Have fun!
Either pegging or manual you need a dildo or toy with a large distinctive head that is going to rub on the stomach side not the back side, in so many words ot has to hit the prostate and work with the bodies natural curvature. As far as the firmness goes, use something with some give that can bend. If the goal is a prostate orgasm, stroking his cock is not going to do that. If he wants to come from prostate play, you need to let him spend the time to get it.
The easiest way at first would be to have him get on top of you while using a strapon. Once he can find the pace, depth, and right toy, you’re on track to whatever position is most exciting. The first few times, it’s easier if he hasn’t come in a day or two, but once he has the feeling figured out, it shouldn’t take any longer than regular PiV.