My ex broke up with me three weeks ago because he wasn’t ready for a relationship and said he rushed into it and didn’t want to make me wait for him to be a good boyfriend. He told his friends that I was great and it had nothing to do with me. He texted me random memes three times the week after we broke up and even tried to talk to me briefly in person last week. My friend questioned him about it and his intentions, and he said he was doing the “right thing, and he couldn’t let it go on.” We only dated for a month, but he was persistent that he wanted a long-term thing and even wanted to settle down with me one day; he even told me he loved me first. He suddenly unadded me on all socials, though, which is weird after he was the one who reached out to me, and I thought he wanted to be friends. I have been clear I don’t want to talk to him now, but I thought he would continue to want to be friends. I’m just really confused, and I don’t want to get him back, but I care about him and would appreciate the insight into this situation and what is possibly going through his mind. Thanks!
TL;DR – My ex broke up with me, tried to contact me the following week, and now unadded me everywhere. Does anyone know what’s going through his head?
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It sounds like he is young, and he realized he wasn’t actually ready for a relationship yet. He dived into one, was happy and excited, then realized he was over his head. So, he broke up, since he couldn’t handle being in a relationship. Then he likely had some mixed feelings on the break up, and couldn’t handle it well – unsurprising if he wasn’t ready for a relationship – so he still contacted you, but then realized what he was doing and cut contact.