I’ve become massively reclusive just because of the shoes I wear hurting me.

I used to be social, would go out with friends and family a lot and would have fun. Then my dress sense changed and I started wearing doc martens instead of sneakers and such. I don’t like them sneakers at all and would never wear them except to the gym or if I had no choice, but they weren’t painful to wear. My doc martens however, are extremely painful to wear and can ruin my mood, it’s ruined dates for me just because I’m in pain constantly, but I refuse to wear any other form of footwear, I’ve done everything I can to break in these shoes and have had them for 5 months, but nothing. I feel awful.