It feels very weird reading other women’s experiences cumming by penetrative sex because I simply don’t feel a pleasure similar to clit stummulation. I kinda just like it because it makes me feel close to my partner but that’s it, i don’t think it’s a feeling that could ever get me to orgasm no matter how much foreplay. I have only cum this way when my partner was using his hand at the same time but this is not something we want to be doing every single time we have sex. So whenever we do he gets me off first and then we have sex (but i dont enjoy it the same because i’ve already orgasmed) or we do it the other way around but i feel uncomfortable because i feel like i shouldn’t be that difficult. Is this normal? Is there a way to change this situation?
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Very normal. Most woman cannot cum from penetrative sex alone. Penetration + G-Spot / clit stimulation on the other hand…
It’s not uncommon at all. Lots of women don’t get off on just penetrative sex. The percentage is in the double digits but I don’t remember it off the top of my head.
Some people just can’t cum from penetrative sex. It’s unfortunate but it’s how things are.
Most women domt cum from PIV. You are in with the majority.
I wonder if there’s a psychological answer to this. Not assuming anything about anyone but I notice my girlfriend is always very comfortable when we have sex and she uses toys on her own and seems to be very in touch and comfortable with her sexuality and comes from penetration when we have sex. I wonder if meditation techniques could possibly help women make this connection if there’s like something similar to stage fright where you’re so focused and concerned with why it’s not happening or making it happen that it causes the physiological issue because of a dichotomy between mind and body. However there are times every so often when she’s stressed or tired or gets in her head if she thinks she’s taking too long or something to come then she won’t be able to