Long distance relationship in the first half of 2021. This relationship is special and much better than any other I had in the past. I’m still sure that we are 100% compatible.
But after that, she started having mental health struggles which caused her to break up with me. She did agree to stay friends, however she slowly started disappearing more often and longer. In the end she was only texting me once in 3 months and now she was offline a half year. She just texted me, saying phone was broken and she lost password of discord.
She says 2 things that seem contradictory
1. “I love you đź’“” (+ the fact the way she chats with me is kind of flirty)
2. “I don’t want a relationship with anyone”
After all this time I still don’t know why she doesn’t like the idea of relationships anymore and I can’t really figure it out because she’s bad at answering questions
Now we’ve just been talking for minutes and she’s already saying she has to leave because she is very busy with something. Even though we haven’t been talking for a half year.
I don’t get it, this situation is so confusing. I want her back, I have known her for 2 years by now and I still believe we are both 100% compatible with eachother. But for mysterious reason she wants to be single, and she also doesn’t wanna talk often. She doesn’t explain why. She’s not responding right now, which is why I’m here asking for help.
How do I show her my good side if I won’t even have much opportunity to communicate with her?
2 comments
she’s not well
Some people like to be desired and string people along. If she really wants to be with you, she would not have said “I don’t want to date anyone”. In reality, she is saying “I don’t want to date you” and has said this and shown you this in her behaviour. Relationships are a lot more than just compatability, there’s loads of people you can be compatible with, but then you also need trust, communication, and have the same life goals. I think there’s someone much better for you out there who won’t play with your heart.