Am I reading too much into this? I took it as a compliment at first but then a friend told me “No that is not a good sign if the girl told you you’re cool”
I’ve been going out with this girl for 2 months. We’re both super busy so we’ve only seen each other 5 times so far but everytime we meet we have a crazy deep connection.
The other day we met she told me: “you really look like a person who has his shit really well put together and has it all figured out. You really look very well organized and in good standing”.
Does that sound bad?
The other day we were chatting and I asked how she’s doing and she replied with a selfie of her skateboarding and said “I’m really pissed off my friends canceled an important meetup so I’m skating”
I responded with: “woah i had no idea you skate. I used to do that heavily!”
She responded with a heart and then sent me a photo of her skates.
I said: “those look fire!! Mine were so much simpler”
She answered: “You’re so cool! I’m not even a good skater yet” (this was actually in response to my ‘woah’ comment)
I thought this is just a normal chat and she just finds me cool because I used to skate… but then when I was talking to a friend about he worried me so much he said “that’s not good at all, it’s better than being told you’re nice but it’s not a good sign she called you cool”
I started panicking… did I do something wrong?
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Your friend is being weird. Take the “cool” as a compliment, and ignore your friend in this situation.
A girl you’re dating thinks you’re cool. In my mind, that’s a good thing.
a cool is a cool
she even put an exclamation mark
just accept it OP, it’s a compliment, you’re doing great!
Jeeze, imagine someone saying you are cool and you taking that as a bad thing. Your friend is a dumbass and is inexperienced.