Best way to give a blowjob

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1. Everyone is different and the best way is the way that works for them which you can only find out through a combination of practice and asking them.

   But generally speaking men are quite simple. Our three turn ons are

   – the view, so make yourself look nice and take a position where you’re comfortable enough to perform but we have something nice to look at. And have at least some light on, how much is up to you but for many men sex in the dark might as well be masturbation
   – anticipation, so build up to it, tell us what to expect hours or days in advance but then keep us waiting, draw it out make a ritual out of it. Fondle him before dinner but tell him the main event won’t start until after dinner, throw in a striptease, that sort of thing
   – manual stimulation of our dicks without pain. So alternate sucking up and down the shaft with using your hands on the shaft while resting your lips around the tip. And you can go as hard and fast as you like as long as you keep the movements small but if you start yanking the thing up and down until the skin goes taut that hurts, and not in a good way, particularly if we have a foreskin.

2. The only piece of advice you need on giving anyone a terrific blow job is this:

   Act like you fucking love it. Like it’s your favorite thing to do. Act like you just love having his dick in your mouth.

   Enthusiasm.

3. Well with your mouth I guess

4. 1. Eye contact
   2. Use your hands too
   3. Play with the balls.
   4. Be/act really into it.

5. Worship that cock like it’s the best thing in the world.
   (Sometimes it is)

6. I don’t think there really is a way to describe how to give a blowjob the best way. You just put your mouth on him and start sucking and licking. If he moans or says good things then you know your doing it right

7. Be enthusiastic and listen to what he says feels good! My hubby loves if I stroke with one hand while grabbing/pulling his balls with the other. Also lots of spit! I’m talking down your arms and chin stringing from your mouth 😅 It’s a mess but the sloppier I get, the more he enjoys himself! Also use tongue! Swirl it around like your licking a lollipop! And suck a little harder when you’re pulling him out of your mouth. If you suck to cum, swallowing is hot for a lot of men and don’t stop sucking until he can’t handle it/or he goes limp. Hope this helps love! I have an oral fixation so bjs are my favorite

8. Hi!

   Enthusiasm is important!!! You could be terrible at sucking dick in technique but if you give it your all and act like you craved his dick you’ll be fine, if you 100% want to do it it will go a long way. Don’t suck him if you don’t want to, it’s not fun for both of you.

   But don’t jump straight to his dick, take some time. Kiss him a little, kiss his neck if he likes that, then just work your way down, kiss his stomach etc until you are there. Then there’s many things you can do at this point. You can stroke him with your hand first, or lick up and down his shaft, tease him a little and avoid the tip. Then take his head into your mouth, you can suck on it, or lick around it, in circles, just experiment, or pay attention to the frenulum, it’s under the head and in a v shape, lick that a little, then if you like you can take him into your mouth and go up and down, you can try to use your tongue at the same time. If you get tired you can suck and use your hand at the same time, or use your hand and mouth at the same time, keep the moves fluid and continuous, find a rhythm. If you want to play with his balls or ass, ask him first. All men like something different, so play around with the things mentioned above.

   Something you can do as you learn, is ask for feedback, verbal or nonverbal. Depending on what you are comfortable with. If verbal, ask things like “Do you like this?” “Does this feel good?” “Should I change what I’m doing?” “Should I go slower, faster, harder, softer?” Or if that’s not your jam, you could do something like the following, ask him to tap you on the shoulder if it’s not feeling good, or ask him to hold the hand you aren’t using and squeeze if it feels good.

   I’d suggest making it clear, if you feel nervous or bad about your abilities and want to improve and please him better, have a conversation and voice your concerns. I don’t know anything about your relationship but the right partner will understand and be willing to work with you and be patient as you learn and will direct you!! A good, caring partner will love playing with you and will encourage you as you practice.

9. get comfortable! your neck can hurt if you’re angled in a weird way and you’ll probably be there for 10+ minutes. use your hands to assist because your mouth will get tired. start with lots of slow licking and squeezing to build up the excitement. moan like you love it.

   you can research, there’s tons of articles/porn videos on bjs.

   most importantly is getting him to tell you what he likes, giving feedback as you’re trying things so you know what’s good and what’s not.

10. In my experience… slow, sensual, eye contact, give his head/tip plenty of attention, lots of soft kisses, sexy moaning, gently play with his balls (or kiss/suck them if you both are okay with that), and if you want to boost his ego a bit, gag on him

11. Be into it.

    Tell him you will Swallow.

    Look into his eyes.

    And Swallow when he snaps his fingers… with a giant grin on your face. He will propose!