I’m not talking about being socially awkward. I don’t even know what to call it, so let me give an example. I want to sing a song, maybe I’m with my friends or whatever and want to have fun, but I just can’t for the love of me do it, hell, I can’t even bring myself to sing when I’m alone. I just genuinely do not understand why it’s SUCH a big deal to me to just sing along with friends. I also cannot dance, alone or with anyone, without feeling extreme pressure.
I’m really curious as to if any of you have/had this type of issue. Is it just who I am?
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I have this too! Probably becuase I fear that people would laugh at me.
I am not sure, but to me it is an ego issue. I feel that my low self esteem makes me think too much of other people, when you really should not. Is it the same for you?
You need to start doing the most ridiculous things you can think of alone. Once you get over that, move on to singing and dancing with friends. I too had this problem, so I started with screaming as loud as I could in the middle of nowhere on my motorcycle. For some reason that helped me and I continued to sing and dance alone until I was comfortable. You will get over this and faster than you might think.