Greetings to you! We are a married couple in our 30s. I want to see my wife in bed with another person and she is somewhat hesitant, but it’s not that she doesn’t want it, and while we’ve been talking, she’s accepted. My idea is that on a vacation I will arrange a male escort for her. I am totally inexperienced in this aspect and I want your help. Is it worth hiring a male escort for him? Have you had any experience with this form of escort? Is it worth it this way? Those of you who have had experience, how did you spend it? Do you have any thoughts or other better solutions?
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Well, this sounds like a horrible idea since she doesn’t seem into it. Unless she is 100% enthusiastic about it, it’s not a good idea. She should not do it just because you want it.
Why hire a “male escort for him” did you mean to write “her” or are you planning on getting a gay escort?
It sounds like she feels like she has to. Why are you pushing for this when she doesn’t seem interested? Even if it is a fantasy, she may prefer it stays that why if she deems the risks too high.
To be honest it sounds like your wife doesn’t want this. Even if she has ”ok’d it” in discussions it doesn’t necessarily means that she wants it. I’ve seen so many men on this app trying to persusde their partners to do this and in the end their partners have told them ”yes” in discussion just to make them stop talk about it, hoping they wont be able to find an extra guy.
this is a troll post , his feed is full of it
Unless she’s 100% down with it, don’t do it. You said she has some hesitation so this is a bad idea.