I made a completely new account to ask this question anonymously. I just need some advice because I don’t want to upset my gf. She has only sh twice in our relationship, and once more recently, however the first time I was slightly put off by it. Any help would be appreciated!

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  1. Always a super difficult topic.

    For once the can’t change that now and have to live with it, on the other hand it’s not like you can flick a switch and suddenly it doesn’t bothers you anymore.

    Talking about it doesn’t help either because there is no middle ground to be found.

    Either you live with it or you break up if it’s a too big turn off for you. I would rather do it now than in a few years because then it would be kind of dick ish to tell her that you didn’t like it for years.

    Tough topic which i don’t like, like pretty much everyone else

  2. If she is still actively harming herself maybe talk to her and ask if there is anything you can do to help.

    You can say you don’t like the fact she hurts herself without bringing sex or desirability into the equation, approach it from a wellbeing point of view. If you can make any progress on helping her stopping them, it will fix the sex issues.

    Is she in therapy?

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