I started seeing a new guy recently and he’s very well-endowed. I’ve never been particularly fond or great at giving head but last night was so bad I gave up and didn’t even finish him off before we had to go our separate ways.
I apologized and he said no worries.
But I feel terrible about it. Especially since he did get me off just moments before..
It’s literally too big to fit in my mouth/throat. My gag reflex was activated immediately, I had cotton mouth, he was complaining about my teeth (which was difficult to control since my mouth couldn’t open wide enough to house his girth)….
what do I do!? I really like him and want to be able to pleasure him the same way he does me. Do I have to exercise my jaw? How can I find oral more pleasurable? It’s always been a contention in my relationships..help!!
TIA.
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**play with it.**
be aware of your body when you give him oral.
contort your body- sway your hips…play with yourself…look him in the eyes.
lick it- balls to tip…slap it on your tongue. slap it on your lips.
you slap yourself with it. and then suck it again. pay attention to the balls…make them wet and massage them as you lick and suck the tip.
also rubbing your thumb right under the tip like the base of the tip works. every guy is different so pay attention to how he guides your hand or his reaction to a hand movement. keep that hand movement going consistently and suck as far as you can every five sucks.
What I get a lot of feedback from is swirling my tongue around the head, putting my lips over my teeth, and stroking with my hand at the same time. If it takes a while it might need more pressure and speed to orgasm. If he can’t fit then just try tongue and stroking.
Lick his cock, I adore little lick flicks on my cock especially at the tip. One cups my balls, one plays with my ass cheeks and hole, boom and I cum. I prefer this to having it sucked.
I think I saw somewhere you said you were in a car. Don’t do it in a car if at all possible. Get yourself somewhere where you can stretch out and get your tongue into every nook and cranny. I agree with the poster who said ENTHUSIASM. Lick that dick like it’s the most delicious popsicle you’ve ever had. I have a very small mouth and it can be hard to get most men all the way in there, that’s why you have two hands. Use your hands and make it tight for him. Keep your mouth loose and as wet as possible. Edible lube!