We’re both in our mid 20s, but I don’t have too much experience. We’ve recently been experimenting some more and I’ve been trying to learn how to give handjobs (bjs are rough bc I choke easily), but recently my bf told me he usually could only orgasm from piv…
He’s been really gentle through all of this, but hasn’t been too clear about what he likes and doesn’t like. Any suggestions for what I could try to suggest/try out with him? I couldn’t really find anything in the faqs about how to approach this.
Part of me feels anxious because his ex has tried to talk about her sex life with him before…. But most of me just wants to make him feel good 🙁
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Providing dual sense while giving handjob by lightly rubbing(make sure to get area wet or lubed) anus. Also, use a rolling technique while giving handjob, not just up and down.
Maybe sit down with a few drinks and ask does he have any fantasies and tell him some of your’s. Maybe try new positions while having PIV
I’m also a guy who has only cum from PIV. I’ve gotten some really great handjobs/blowjobs, and I know how I like it. But it’s never happened for me. It’s never bothered me too much because it’s more about enjoying the experience with your partner rather than the actual orgasm.
Does he masturbate? If so, try mutual masterbation to watch how he pleases himself and then you can try the same things.
Odds are he just can’t relax enough to climax without piv.
What is piv?
Every guy gives himself a hand job, nearly daily!
A hand job is barely sex. And certainly nothing to write about on social media.
PIV is sex.