Straight men of Reddit who don’t like going down on their female partners and rarely do so, why?

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  2. i didn’t “like” it until I met a girl whose coochie tasted like mango-tangerine soda.

  4. There are chicks that don’t suck dick and there are dudes that don’t eat the box and that is the beauty ofthe human condition

  7. I have never, will never, could never refuse eating my favorite meal.

    I do have a friend or two that claim to hate it, which I find weird. It’s hot asf and makes her feel like a queen at the same time.

  11. I dated a women that smelled like a sardine factory down there to the point where the smell was so overpowering that I actually gagged. I asked her how she washes her cooch and she said she really doesn’t. So then I asked why and she told me she was never taught to. She realized then that it was important (at least to me, the giver) and life was smooth sailing after that.

  14. I’m assume because he doesn’t want to. Sex isn’t transactional. If I eat a woman out, she isn’t obliged to give me a blowjob and the same in reverse.

    If you asked him to go out on you and he doesn’t want to (like doesn’t want to try it or anything), respect it and break up. If you don’t, you will resent each other because you feel like you’re owed a particular sex move while he doesn’t not.

  15. LMAO. I always wondered this too… But i dont blame them. Vagina scares me too, and i have one. Joking but not joking. I could never be with a female.

  17. Came here expecting half to answers to be “I actually love doing it” which isn’t answering the question at all. Y’all didn’t disappoint.

  19. I never refuse and always attempt. Thing is, hygiene is real and it’s a two way street. I clean myself well, especially if sexy time is on the schedule. I expect the same, but, what I’ve encountered, not a fan.

  20. Related trauma, doesn’t have to be self experienced, this can be just because influence, and it can be overcome by influence.

  21. I do if it doesn’t smell like shit haha. Smelly pussy is one of the most repulsive smells to me.

  24. Some women dont like it. My wife says she has never been comfortable with someone having their mouth on her like that. I personally love going down. In pass relationships it was like a hobby. As long as she is clean and odor free (as in extra odors), I don’t know why any man would turn down the ability to give a girl a guaranteed orgasm.

    I’ll add, why do women suck your dick like their life depends on it while dating, then act like their throat has a dick allergy once you get married? My wife used to call period week, blow job week. Now its all I can do to get 2-3 a year.

  27. She complains that she’s ticklish and she doesn’t like the feeling of my wet tongue down there, so she prefers it if I just skip foreplay and give her the D right away.

    I never saw any reason to argue.

  28. Was forced to by an older relative when I was very young. Have tried to get over it, and done it before, but always end up feeling extremely weird so I prefer not to.

  29. When I met my husband we were both inexperienced. I was super nervous to go down on him but I DID because he wanted me to… like he REALLY wanted me to. When I asked him to he would go down for like 30 seconds and quit. I know it’s not a hygiene issue I make sure I’m squeaky clean before we do anything. When I asked him why he said he’s nervous because he doesn’t know what he’s doing??? But I literally went through the same thing but I kept doing it until I really figured it out and now I’m very proud of my oral skills and I looooove giving him oral. The same thing happened with anal I did NOT want to do it but he wanted it soooo bad I was like fine we’ll try it. Then guess what I hated it and it was painful but we kept doing it until we knew what we were doing and now it doesn’t hurt at all (not my favorite thing though). I just think my husband in particular doesn’t care about my pleasure as much as his, he tries to make sure I get off during sex but if I don’t he won’t do anything about it I’ll just go get my vibrator and finish myself🤷‍♀️. I just think some men don’t care as much about the woman they just wanna get theirs.

  33. I just think its unsanitary regardless of how clean the person is.. same reason why I won’t ”eat ass”.

    I also do not request that oral be performed on me either – i’ve never liked it done to me anyway

  36. Had a partner years ago give me hpv on my tongue, had to have an 8mm “thing” removed. That was as much fun as you can expect. Borders were clear but i still have to get checked by an ENT every 5 years.

    So… there’s that.

  37. Someone might need this. I often get good comments about how good I taste, one person told me they were so into it if felt like they were having breakfast. Noble things I do that might help is I often don’t wear panties (people find me odd but I don’t care). I wash up myself with some soap externally and water getting all the folds and really taking my time, I make sure to smell before I know for sure I’m clean (both when showering and any time I do it). I clean myself after a sweaty day, sometimes before I go to bed, after a number 2, after sex, any time I have alot of discharge down there. I wear panties after I’m completely dry after a shower.

    They grow alot of pineapples in my area and I get to have them any time I can, for free. Lifestyle choices, I don’t drink often, and do not eat meat. I would advise the use of a menstrual cup or good tampons that don’t leave any cotton residue as opposed to sanitary towels.

  38. Hey all,

    I’m really happy to see such earnest answers here and also just a variety of reasons. Thank you for being open and honest about this topic. I seriously really appreciate it!

  39. Lack of hygiene is the main reason, I prefer not to do it unless I’m really into the chick. If It’s clean and I really like you, I’ll eat that peach all day long happily

  41. My guy said I smelled. So I put my fingers down there and smelled, and guess what? Nothing?

    He’s never gone down on a lady tho so he doesn’t know how we smell. I’m annoyed because he made me feel dirty, but I’m positive I’m clean. It’s just the smell of… well, a pussy. No fish smell, nothing.

  44. Overpowering funky smell and poor hygiene are about the only things that can turn me off of that. Normally I’m down there for hours, love it lol

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