Hi guys! I have two different situation which are causing me paranoia. (Sorry for my bad English, it is not my first language)
The first one:
Recently, I was having sex with my gf, we used two different condoms during the intercourse. After we finished, I wanted to check both condoms. I checked the second one, it was alright. Then I checked the first one, I just inflated it and it burst. We changed condoms because I lost erection, we were having sex with the first one for just 2-3 minutes, as I said, I barely had any erection. Is there any possibility that she can get pregnant? I’m afraid that the condom had a tiny hole inside, even though it was right from the box.
The second one:
After we finished having sex, we went to have a shower together, we ended up with petting. Then I came on her back and ass when she was standing and everything started flowing down towards her vagina (she said, that she didn’t feel anything on her vagina), and I instantly took the shower and washed everything, I’m afraid, that she also can get pregnant like this, because maybe I didn’t washed everything properly, but after she had a shower.
Sorry for this guys, I’m from a country that doesn’t have any good sex education and also I’m always to paranoid about everything:(
2 comments
You don’t need to worry about the shower. You probably don’t need to worry about the broken condom, but that’s not a 100% certainty. Did you ejeculate into the broken condom? I don’t think I understood that from your post.
Just some general info:
Your partner can become pregnant if she is currently fertile, and sperm is introduced inside the vagina.
Her fertility is based on her reproductive cycle and can be generally estimated if she is tracking it closely and it is regular and not erratic. As a man, I do not trust tracking fertility as birth control unless I have very deep trust with my partner.
For sperm to enter the vagina it needs to be inserted at the vaginal opening or released directly inside. Basically, if you ejaculate directly on the vaginal opening or inside the vagina, that can get her pregnant. Also, sperm can be in the pre-cum secretion from the penis during sex. This is why “pulling out” is not an effective method of birth control. You could not ejaculate inside her, but some sperm still ends up inside anyway because your penis was in there without a condom.
The condom provides a barrier to the ejaculate and pre-cum. A broken condom no longer provides a reliable barrier. Pre-cum has very little sperm and, so long as you stopped having sex with the broken condom, it is very unlikely that pre-cum in a condom with a small hole will lead to a pregnancy.
If she knows she is fertile at the time you had sex, and the condom broke, the chance of pregnancy might be very very low, but will not be zero.