I hooked up with a guy and he fingered me a few times. It honestly didn’t feel great and kinda hurt, it felt like he was just shoving his fingers in me and was fingering too hard or fast. I am a virgin but have fingered myself before and it hurt at first when I did it myself but once I found a good angle and pace it didn’t hurt and felt good. So i’m not sure if I have some medical issue maybe or if it was just that this guy was doing it way too hard? Any advice is appreciated!
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When I was in my teens, fingering was a big thing. None of the guys ever did it right, and all thought they were great because they had this “great idea” that we like heavy, rough rubbing like what they see in porn movies. I’m over 30 now, and never had someone who knew it without me guiding him. I think it is very individual and we know the best, so guys should be open to learn and adapt whatever technique they have. Nothing wrong with you. Y
Did he just dive in cause you need to warm that shit up first get a girl wet and loose before filling.
Is the pain deeper and felt inside or is it more of a stinging/burning sensation at the opening? Depending on the type of pain it could be a different cause, though I’m not a doctor, I’m just speaking from experience! Either way it sounds a lot like there maybe wasn’t enough foreplay/build up to relax your vagina and get you wet. Please don’t worry that there’s anything wrong with you though !
What I have learned is no (well very few) women really enjoy fingers inside and those that do have to get really warmed up. It all starts with the clit and rubbing it in a manner that is consistent but not overboard. It sucks, the number of girls I could have got off before I learned, but maybe it is somewhat individual I don’t know.