I know the first answer is communicate.
It seems that just like love languages and how people show their love in different ways they tend to iniate in their own ways.
What are some ways you iniate?
I’ve also been doing the foreplay all day idea and I’m wondering what the foreplay looks like for other people.
Coming out of a dead bedroom I would like to improve these things with my SO.
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My husband and I recently started sending some flirty, sexy and naughty texts to each other throughout the day. Sometimes it’s just a cute comment and other times it’s a raunchy porn gif. Regardless, it works! It’s so fun and can really get you further in the mood š
I just walk up behind the person I’m initiating sex with, kiss the side of their neck, then work my way down. Works everytime!
All day apart from each other? Naughty texting is the perfect foreplay. Tell how much you’re into something in their looking (whatever you find sexy). Another way is to tell how much you’re thinking about them sexually and this must work like *I wish I had your right in front of me rn, things would’ve went crazy* and spicy stuff like that. All day together physical touch is what works every time. You must know what is the simple yet effective move that turns them on and start doing it first then initiate a physical touch.
And remember; neck kisses always work
Hold eye contact and go in for a kiss, add a bit of tongue and create a rhythm for both your bodies to get worked up… Next thing you know you’re fucking š
Just get naked and start kissing them lol š