I think I use my sex appeal to keep people interested in me. Whenever I sense I’m losing someone it’s like a switch goes off and I’ll send them a nude or something to keep them interested in me. It’s not like I want to do this but I think I’ve gotten to the point where I’m so lonely that it feels like the only way to keep people around. I don’t want to be doing this but I’m tired of being alone :,)
I even considered posting nudes on reddit tonight for some attention then I realized how fucked up that is. Idk what to do haha
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Loneliness is a common thing a lot of people experience these days. I would not recommend putting yourself in a risky position to heal that loneliness as it would only leave you feeling worse at the end of the day.
There are people who will genuinely care about you, as a man I can say we can be sensitive too, but first you have to love the good aspects of yourself, accept you imperfections and improve that at your reach. That is a good start to present yourself as you truly are and be able to form genuine and meaningful connections in which you really can tell when someone wants to hold your hand dearly.
Find people you share interesting with etc, so that you keep them interested because of your personality and interests instead of your nudes. But nudes are an added bonus.
Nothing wrong with sharing nudes on reddit, I’ve posted my fair share… Just do it for fun instead of doing it to fill the loneliness.