The original was posted on r/dating_advice and I was informed to move it here.
Me(34M) and my girlfriend (29F) had a discussion last night about our sex life.
For the most part things are good, however one issue that has been recently brought up by myself.
The issue is that whenever we have sex my goal is to make sure she gets off first. Once that happens she is typically done and tells me to keep going until I finish.
This is where my issue starts. If I decide to continue she just lays there, doesn’t really do anything, no moaning, nothing to make it seem like she is enjoying herself. This really kills the mood for me and makes it difficult for me to reach a climax.
After we talked about it, she told me that she “thought that is what most guys liked” and that I “am the only person she knows” that doesn’t like that.
So my question for you Reddit is do you like or want your partner to just lay there with no expression of enjoyment or pleasure?
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The answer is no.
As for your partner, maybe she’s losing all the sexual appetite after she orgasms..
She is being a star fish after she gets her rocks off!
Try finishing together. It’s not a pleasure to moan after orgasm.
Omg I love to keep going after I cum, it feels amazing. I don’t think anyone wants their partner to ever hurt lay there.