This is kind of a weird question. So I had sexual intercourse the first time when I was 18 but I was drunk and taken advantage of. My hymen broke during that encounter.
I did oral and fingering with my ex after that.
My last ex couldn’t keep an erection for long, but he did manage to put his penis inside of me once vaginally for about ten seconds.
I’m not sure if I’m a virgin.
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You aren’t. And virginity is a bullshit social construct anyway
I suppose that depends on how you choose to view virginity.
Most people don’t view oral as sex.
I personally think that you need to achieve orgasm during penetration.
You say you had sexual intercourse for the first time. Then ask if your a virgin?
Once done it’s done. Doesn’t make a difference if you don’t remember or didn’t enjoy it.
for the record, the hymen breaking means nothing at all. you can literally “break” by doing something as simple as horseback riding. ALSO, your hymen never actually breaks. It’s always there and just gets more elastic.
Not a virgin.
Virginity is not a thing. Stop worrying about it either way.
A penis has entered your vagina. Therefore, you are not a virgin. I personally prefer non-virgins. The more not-a-virgin, the better.
if you want to be a virgin you can tell people you are a virgin. thats absolutely something that comes with the age old virginity stigma.
Some of y’all need to read about sexual trauma. Ultimately virginity is very much a construct but some people use the term in different ways if they are survivor. For example many people that become promiscuous after an assault will say that they gave their virginity to the partner that they feel helped them to heal.
As long as you live in a world where having anal sex does not void your “virginity”, it does not matter. At all.
If you live in a religious repressive environment: Don’t ask, don’t tell, don’t care.
Nope
Technically you’re not, but unless your parents are religious nutcases, the correct answer is: it really doesn’t matter.