You May Also Like
He doesn’t want a relationship
- August 27, 2022
- 3 comments
I have been dating this guy for a month exclusively. We go on great dates and the sex…
Physical touch during dates?
- January 20, 2023
- 2 comments
What’s the best physical moves to make on a date to not send friend vibes but also not…
Any tips on how to move on from someone who you you felt really strong feelings for but just not in the right place to be in a relationship?
- June 9, 2022
- 2 comments
So I’ve been talking to this person for a more than a month and I know this is…
3 comments
1st question: Just 1 and that was at the time. Looking back it was the right choice but it was fr like a year+. Other girls ive talked to there grew a mutual disinterest and got over those in less than a week but thats different ig
2nd question: If dates arent going well i have before. I think its more of “damn, this would be going way smoother if it was ‘her’ ” but thats not really a thought if things are going well.
first one. No. There was always a reason we broke up. If a relationship is not salvageable, for example if one of the pair cheated, then a breakup might be necessary.
Second. No. I don’t compare. That would be unfair and immature. I learned from my last relationship and moved on. Digging stuff up and projecting to a new partner about what ifs, isn’t okay.
third. See answer to first question. What would i do about it? Sit with your emotions and after a while, you might be able accept the situation for what it is. You have to move on, or your next relationship experiences might be tainted by it. See it as a fresh start and not as a bandaid.
I live with it.
If I broke up with someone it was for a legitimate reason. If that reason was illegitimate, then the least I can afford them is not having to deal with my wish washy ass.
I did regret breaking up with my first real GF, but at the end of the day it was for the better.
I don’t compare my women, however I will occasionally notice when something my current partner does juxtaposes something my exes didn’t.