Hi all,
**Seduction Reddit doesn’t want to work correctly**
I (25m) can flirt/escalate is a variety of ways (including hand holding, play fighting, caressing hair etc.) but placing my hand on a women’s thigh seems too strange for me.
How does it make sense that I can have sex with a Women, but I’m nervous to touch her leg? (Before sex, of course)
Does anyone has a theory for why this is?
Thank you.
3 comments
Because with sex you’re already *there*. There is no anticipation, no awkwardness, no wondering what to do next or what is “ok”. All of which inspire anxiety.
Because you are almost about to step out of your personal comfort zone. It is as simple as that!
When you run your hand up a woman’s thigh there is only ONE thing that means. She is either going to sweep your hand away (which is totally fine) or she is going to let you explore.
Be a MAN! If she allows it, be respectful. If she doesn’t allow it, be respectful.
That’s it! But respect is absolutely key here. It is no big deal either way as long as respect is in you mind while doing it.
Fear of rejection is the biggest one for me. If I put my hand on her thigh and she pushes it away or says no then it can feel like I’ve done something wrong and I lose all my confidence.