I have learned the skill of not saying too much dumb shit which gives me more success. I do phonecalls now instead of texting. I initiate touch on my dates rather quickly and do it smooth as well.
One thing i keep on struggling with however is that im too eager to text the girls im interested in the most. For example:
Yesterday i had an hour long call over the phone with one girl after i didn’t text her for a week (she told me she likes when i text her and should do it more often).
Today i texted again but she was her usual cold self (over the phone she sounded nice) short AF reactions. So i deleted the match (on bumble, but she has my fb and insta and number now.)
I have other girls to talk to. I keep busy. But still i cant hold myself from wanting to talk to some of them. She has exams till the end of this month so we cant meet up sooner.
I also don’t know if i should ever call her again after i deleted our match because she was acting cold.
Do you guys have any tips on how to take it more slowly when u are interested in them?