My bf and I (both 21) decided to become physically intimate with each other a month ago. Had sex once, didn’t see one another for 3 weeks, and then we did it for a few days (painful but it always stops towards the end), and then I went away for another week.
Now I’m back consistently and it still hurts. I feel like the pain is typically on the bottom of my hole and it’s the worst with entry and when he’s all the way in. I’m not sure if this is due to his penis being shaped downwards.
I don’t know if somethings wrong with me, where I am it’ll take a while to see a gyno. I’ve cried a lot worried about the pain never going away. We always make sure to use a lot of lube but to no avail. Its killed my libido a bit. It’s only felt good once so far, but still hurt in the beginning. We’ve only had sex a handful of times.
Could it be the angle we’re doing (missionary)? Is there something I need to try? Do I need to dilate my vagina? I don’t think it’s endo but I’m terrified.
Edit: please stop asking me for sex
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Is he big?
Do you use lube?
Calm down, slow down, relax.
How is it when you masturbate / use a dildo ?
Does the pain still happen ?
If you are having pain (the first times, when having sex can be painful!) it might be time to visit a gyno to ask, we do not know your particular case nor if it could be nothing or everything 😉
Talk to your doctor, they have seen / heared and smelled the most outrageously strange things!
There is a illness called Lichen Schlerosis, it COULD be that, but a gynochologist must check this to check it. Are you horny and wet/open before he enters? Not enough foreplay can really make it uncomfertable for us ladies.