I’m finding it really hard to meet genuine friends and I am now starting to feel extremely sad.

For example: going clothes shopping and having no one to send a cute picture of a an outfit to get their opinion because you only have 2 friends that might reply in two hours.

Having no one to call day in and day out because i’m going to be honest one (well two) has a child so shes busy the other is an introvert and doesn’t do calling.

I could go a month without being called. Or realistically a week without being texted.

This is why I’m starting to feel very alone, isolated from the mental excitement of social life. Because of this Im not on tik tok or snapchat anymore.

its really bringing me down seeing other people going out and having fun, when you hardly have any friends to share a bond with.

I’ve done most things going on friendship apps (where i met one friend 2 years ago) but it just kinda feel like nowadays people are only looking for motives e.g a club, golf, dinner etc and you only hear from them when its an event/party and not genuine friendships.

Ive already done fun stuff alone, Nice hotels, Nice restaurants, doing something NICE to distract myself, hobbies, making crafts, getting into tarot & stuff

but when its just me & my head every single day I’m starting to get bored doing things alone

Im pretty much into music: house, afrobeats, dancehall, drill, grime, alternative, tech, rap, some rock, hip hop. So it’s not like I can’t fit in with other cultures or not aware of whats hot or in rn because I fit in most of the times if not all the time (due to my music taste and style).

also into spirituality & meditation. Starting university (Marketing but its remote sigh)

Is anyone in London or what not in the same situation and looking for a genuine friend as well? Do reach out, we can get through this together šŸ™

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