I (21M) have been seeing a girl (19F) for some time now. We are not in a relationship because she told me she wasn’t looking for something serious yet.
But, she gives me so much attention (which I like). She sends good morning and good night texts very often, she always frees her schedule to make time to see me multiple times a week, she initiates a lot of texts, she sends nudes and sexts to me a lot.
She has also bought me presents and made me a cake for my birthday and obviously treats me like we are a couple already. We are very intimate together and also have opened up emotionally.
I do most of the date planning and also put in the same amount of effort into her.
The problem is that I have told her I don’t want to be seeing anyone else but her right now but she seems like she is still keeping her options open even with all the attention given to me.
So with all the stuff going on between us, it’s obvious she has strong feelings for me, but she still doesn’t want exclusivity yet.
Am I doing something wrong? Did I show all my cards too quickly? Or is she just stringing me along and just wants my attention?