moving on
I was with my ex for most a year, friends for 8 prior, he relapsed on his doc, and refused any help, it’s been almost a year now, and I havnt been able to move on or even have sex with another person, about a month ago he drove by my house and I saw him and that brought it up all over again, I have no idea if he was even driving by because of me or just going to a parking lot near my home to use, but I just need to get over this we havnt spoken in atleast 6 months, he’s still a user and apparently has buried himself deep in addiction. (No friends left, almost homeless, ect) there was so much I did wrong and I feel stuck on that aswell, but I’ve apologized for everything I did so I just need advice on releasing this, important to the relationship was just over a year, not very serious, and he was mildly narcissistic, so that may be why
Tdlr; can’t get over narcissistic junkie ex
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Yeah that was no accident, he drove by hoping you eould see him.
If he’s a homeless junkie, then he’s probably betting an being able to guilt trip you into taking him back 🙄 mostly for a doormat girlfriend and a roof iver his head.
Don’t be suprised if you ” accidentally ” run into each other
I think a part of you feels like you could save him or guilt for his drug dependency. You care, so the guilt of moving on is getting to you. This isn’t your fault or something that you have to deal with. Remember that. Also, he is probably intentionally trying to get in contact by driving by, eventually you will “just” run into him. If he’s as narcissistic as you say and as deep into his addiction as you say, he is trying to use you. Be careful.