TLDR:To all you lovely women out there, work on yourself because you’re worthy of long term achievements and happiness 😊
I’ve had the unfortunate experience of having a BEAUTIFUL woman for 5 years.
She would wear her looks and appearance as her entire personality, consumed her time with perfecting herself with makeup and face routines, nothing else.
The lovely young lady that she was, had been in relationships since she was 15, never without a man and she prided herself on being “wife material”.
This is fine, but I want someone with more substance not just sex appeal, somebody who can engage with me and articulate vast concepts rather than make me feel like I’m losing braincells when we speak. Build your hobbies, engage socially with those around, look after your health etc.
My point is, there is a lot of women out there doing this stuff, my advice ladies: work on yourself, take pride in yourself because you are worthy of long term achievements and happiness!
Do not settle for short term relations and sexual gratification! Come to a man with more dimensions to your personality than your looks! Looks will fade, your humour and engaging personality won’t as long as you’re taking care of yourself. You are not just an accessory to men!
Personally, I am currently attracted to this woman at my gym who works out and handles her business, hardly ever catch her checking herself out and she seems to be pretty down to earth on this basis. Do not let social media fool you into only caring about looks and taking the best pictures! That isn’t life!
Disclaimer: I do not intend to oppress anyone at all. Now, there’s plenty of men who are too submissive and thinking about women more than their goals and achievements, this needs work too and obviously not everyone is perfect. But I am a straight male and this is my experience with women so far at my age of 24, unfortunately she cheated on me with her ex and trust was broken so i had to end it but, yeah. Feelsbadman.
I hope we can have a healthy conversation and sharing of observations below.
I look forward to reading what everyone has to say!