I 15m for the first 14 years of my life i had a lot of struggles that werent my fault, physical and mental abuse which caused me to think that “i cant wait till i can move out” because of all the shit i had to endure. Recently my life has gotten a lot better. I have almost everything that i wanted when i was younger with a few exceptions of course but ive gotten bored with everything i have. I dont have any more problems that arent caused by me. Yes i am socially awkward but pretty much my fault right now. Is this what growing up is like?
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Yupe…and yes the old cliche quote “whatever doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger” is true
And in no way to belittle your life experience, but for the most part, the things in life we wish we could go back in time and change were things of which we did not have control of or the knowledge or experience to handle.
GL kid Life is carry on
I’ve heard it said that you grow accustomed to stress such that it becomes difficult to function normally without it.
I’m a freshman in college and left one of my abusive parents around 4 years ago and recently unblocked her. Though after that, I became stressed with my fathers expectations which he didn’t talk about until I left. Then after 3 years of that, I got into college. Even here, I am still stressed with school, family, and work. But I kinda force myself to be stressed. It has me working better if I’m under pressure. Yes I complain about it but it is how I always worked. Growing up is filled with a bunch of speed bumps and if you speed up, you might crash so I would enjoy the silence while it lasts