i can tell that i’m horny and get very wet but once he actually puts it inside i start to barely be able to feel it. sometimes when we’re in a spooning position i like how it feels, it’s slightly sore but still kinda good but he doesn’t last that long. (i was a virgin prior to him and its still like tight or something so i am barely passed the “hurting” phase.)
in doggy i can barely feel it, also in missionary when my legs are lifted up, i can barely feel it. also he is NOT small lol so i know that isn’t why.
i really want to enjoy sex!! maybe something is wrong with me??? i got him a bunch of gifts for valentines day and i also threw in some sexual things like flavored lube and condoms that ppl recommended lol. i wish i enjoyed it as much as he did!
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Maybe give yourself some time to get the hang of it. Sex in the very beginning isn’t perfect for everyone. The main this you can do is not put pressure on yourself.
Many women can’t get to orgasm or get the sensation they need from just penetration, which is why it’s important for him to understand your clitoris and how to stimulate it. In spooning or doggy positions for example you would probably need him to reach around and touch it or take matters into your own hands.
You need to touch your clit.
It really comes down to the woman, some are more external and need the clit to feel pleasure or cum, or less likely, are like me and like internal more and cum from that. It sounds like you fall into external category, so find a position where you can touch it or he can touch it.
Also, you can be on top. Put yourself onto him, you can grind yourself back and forth of him which will stimulate your clitoris and also give maybe give a feeling of fullness inside.
It could also be how he is thrusting into you. There’s ways men can thrust to feel better for you, I’d maybe be upfront with him and find ways for it to work for you. But if it doesn’t that’s okay too. There’s a lot of women that love piv and some who are completely indifferent to it, and both options are fine. You just need to find what works for you. Feel free to reply back if you have any questions. :))
At first it feels like heaven but later you understand that its not life changing or smth special