I’m with this girl and I tried putting my dick in her pussy and I couldn’t right away. It’s average in length but I think it’s wider than average. So I assume its harder to get in. For my first time(different girl), it fit in pretty easily and I had no trouble but its changed lately. When it doesn’t go in right away I panic and it goes soft. It really upsets me because I want to have a good time and show her a good time. I’m meeting her again this week and I don’t want this to happen again. Any advice?
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How much foreplay are you doing?
Foreplay. You can’t just stick it in. You have to warm her up and get her excited first
Dude, consider increasing foreplay. Do cunningulus first on her then more foreplay.
Get her in the mood and warm her up. That should be the start of any sexual encounter to ensure she’s wet down there and ready for penetration. This will help with your confidence in knowing your penis will enter without difficulty. Could also be the position your trying to do with her. Good luck!
Women don’t work that way. It’s best that you learn this now. For women, getting your dick inside usually isn’t the best part of sex. It feels good for them, but you need to do other stuff, especially on the clit, which really feels much better. You need to do a lot of foreplay
(at least 15 minutes) to warm them up which will get them wet enough for you to go in. Even after you’re in and finished, they may not have had an orgasm, so you probably need to help them finish with the clit again.
Also, make sure you’re using condoms. They have lube that will help, and at your age you should not be risking pregnancy or infections.
as a woman myself i can say she’s not excited… even though she asks u to put it in, if she’s not wet she’s most likely simulating
u sticking it in is not “showing her a good time” U gotta incorporate lots of foreplay.
Some things you could do:
– kissing her neck
– sucking on her earlobe
– whispering dirty things into her ear
– rubbing her clit while making out
– gliding the tongue from her neck to her nipples, sucking on them, gliding down to her abs, then thighs, kissing her thighs and slowly getting closer to her coochie where you then start to tease her.
– then oral, fingering, massaging her boobs while giving oral
– dirty talk before and during sex
from my personal experience, i’ve done these and it never failed me. Some who were more sub, I like to transition from making out, to grabbing her chin and moving it to the side to leave her neck wide open for me to suck. gets em everytime 😮💨. (again, atleast in my experience)
Theres alot more foreplay u could do but it really depends on what they like.