I set a date with a girl I’ve been dating for a few weeks for some anal fun with rimming and sex. We got down to some foreplay and just when I get ready to eat her bootyhole and spread her asscheecks…I get hit with a strong scent of shit.
So, I told her that we can’t do anything tonight since she didn’t wash her ass unless she gets in the shower. She is pissed with me now and said that she showers every day. She took an Uber and went home angry with me.
Was I to hard? I’m guessing many women probably forget they should wash their asshole and not just the cheeks.
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Do you have wet wipes? You should have used one, or asked her too… I used to keep them on the back of my toilet
Do you shower after every shit you take?
Tho I make sure to always shower before doing stuff in regards to my bootyhole so š¤·āāļø
Too hard? Perhaps. Why not both take a shower? “Babe I’m excited but want to be super clean for each other. 12 minute shower and I’m gonna do all the sex-things to you”
Very unlikely she says no and you get the cleanliness you want…plus foreplay.
The anger was probably a defense mechanism to hide the embarrassment. Maybe you worded it in a waybthtaboculd have been kinder?
Hopefully she’ll cool down and understand that she wouldn’t want to slurp on a stinky hole either.
Based on how you have described it, you definitely worded it about as poorly as possible. I can’t tell if this is a serious post or just trolling, but I’m leaning towards the latter.
Yea.. I would say she should have washed her ass before getting rimmedā¦ she probably was upset about the way you approached her on the subject because it could be touchy for some people to be told they smell. Could also be taken offensively too. Maybe talk to her and see how sheās feeling and maybe if sheās down to try again but shower right before?ā¦
No, you were not too hard.
In retrospect, do you think you handled the situation well?
āHey do me a favor and letās both hop in the shower real quickā
Would have been sufficient and far less embarrassing for your partner.
it sounds like you weren’t very sensitive about it, I would think about how she felt in that moment and apologize for the way you approached it.
I think “many woment forget to wash their asshole” is a super weird, sexist statement. we should all know that cishet men are overwhelmingly not washing themselves correctly, and that one specific woman doing anything does not reflect on women as a whole.
Yikes! If you want to move forward with something like that in the future. It might be best to suggest a mutual shower together as a form of foreplay?
That might go down better than āhey your arse stinks, I wonāt give you a rimmingā¦unless you clean itāā¦š³ Doesnāt surprise me that she took an Uber homeā¦At all.
Sheās probably embarrassed.
Itās nice to have a proper clean up before getting intimate with someone. But hey sometimes shit literally happens.š¤·š¼āāļø
As someone who rims and gets rimmed, cleanliness is part of the deal. She will get over it.
A simple shower does not get you ready for rimming. You have to actually scrub your ass with soap, not just let water trickle down your ass. You also kind of have to finger yourself clean if you like tongue fucking. When I plan to rim someone new, I am very graphic on how I want them to clean themself first. Better safe then sorry.
LMAOO. I can sorta relate. my ex and I were goin at it one time and while we were doing doggy, her bootyhole kept staring at me. Out of curiosity, I stuck my finger (maybe about an inch in) and when i pulled it out, my finger was slightly brown colored and was hit with a strong scent of shit. I gagged in the middle of sex and she sorta knew what happened. She got super embarrassed, grabbed my hand, took me to the bathroom, and made me wash my hands infront of her. I felt so bad š
You are a literal pinecone, OP. Learn how to treat the fairer sex before trying this again.
Dude youāre doing ass stuff, itās gonna stink lol
Next time, try be Tactful without being tacky. Others here gave you some great ideas, but sadly a lot of people donāt realize that they could have feces hanging out in the anal canal for an upcoming bm. In this case, washing just the outside of the hole wouldnāt make much difference, especially if they have hair around it. Most people arenāt willing, but you really should check up inside to ensure you donāt have anything about to come out if you anticipate butt play.
Knowing ass eating is in the menu Iād definitely wash it out thoroughly before I left the house and Iād rinse again at ur place
Eat her ass in the shower after you wash her up
She didn’t get the mud out of the spokes.
People, scrub your shit holes.
Iām gonna say the obsession with eating ass is not something Iām opposed to but is kinda strange unless itās like shower time right before the event.
My wife is immaculate and a bit self-conscious. When sheās rimmed itās because a) Iām requesting it and b) sheās deemed it āreadyā. Iād never push my concern about her cleanliness on her; Iāll hold off or Iāll clean her up with a warm, wet towel first.