I’m not physically attracted to him. his personality is 10, our vibes are flirty, exciting, emotionally deep. he’s boyfriend material. but I just couldn’t see myself kissing him because I don’t find him physically attractive. should physical attraction be an important criteria in terms of dating? should I just give him a shot?
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It’s always a factor. But what the hey, give it a shot.
Don’t date him, (the only justification imo would be you think you don’t deserve to be happy with any partner, and you also aren’t attracted to anyone on the planet but still want to pursue a sexual relationship that you are trying to never enjoy or be satisfied in for some reason)…just don’t. It would be an asshole move.
Flirting is all about physical attraction, something does not add up.
You probably should give it a try, don’t like it, quit early.
No, you shouldn’t. Physical attraction is very important in a relationship. If you can’t find him attractive then the relationship is doomed to fail. Sooner or later your lack of attraction to him is going to surface, and when that happens things are not going to be pretty. He’ll be pretty hurt and things between you two won’t be the same again.
Stop leading him on