Hi. I am a 28y male (5’10” and 174 lbs). I do not exercise much and not getting enough veggies these days. I recently got married but before that I used to masturbate a lot. I think it became kind of an addiction. Also, as far as I know, I do not have any chronic condition or disease.
Now I am having difficulty maintaining erection throughout the action with my wife (never had any sexual experience with any girl before marriage). When I start it by kissing her, I get rock hard but after a while it starts to get soft. I have ejaculated only through BJ by her.
My questions are:
1. Should I be able to be sustain a boner throughout the whole session without much stimulation to the penis? Is it normal for the penis to get flaccid during sex?
2. Do I have erectile dysfunction? It’s not that I can’t get a boner. When she gave a BJ, I could ejaculate.
3. My wife says I am good in the bed to her and I should relax and be confident but this problem is annoying me inside.
Any suggestion on how to solve this? I hope I don’t have to take viagra or something…
2 comments
Exercise more. Wank less.
It’s because of masturbation, if you masturbate a lot you get used to that hard grip and edging in order to maintain erection. Before actual sex your dick doesn’t get constant jerking and edging so it goes soft.