I met this guy and the next day we ended up taking a trip and spending that weekend together. The 2nd night we were making out and started to get in the mood. Our hands were all over each other but when he was about to get under my pants, he hesitated and put his hands somewhere else. I gave him head, asking him if he liked it and making sure he was enjoying, but after a while he said he wouldnt be able to cum cause he had been drinking before.

The next morning I gave him head and after a while (around 20min), I knew that he wasn’t even close to cum, so I got on top of him expecting for him to lead this time. But he did nothing. We made out for a while but I felt he wouldn’t make any move so I just gave up.

Next day we were at a public place, with no people around, and he said he was horny. I said it wasn’t the right place or moment, so he jerked off himself. While doing it, I was laying by his side and he was staring at me. I said ‘you know you can touch me, right?’, so he put his hands all over my body while doing his thing. But after a while he stopped before finishing.

It’s the first time this happens to me, it was frustrating to not know what was happening or what he wanted. Makes me think he didn’t like me!

To add some context, he made questions about past relationships and number of times I have had sex, which is strange to me, no one ever ask me that before. And that’s also what makes me think he could be inexperienced. I didn’t ask the question back, only thing he told me is that he wasn’t into casual sex.

I didn’t want to ask about the reason behind his behavior cause I didn’t want to push him, but I’m thinking about it over and over. Help!

3 comments
  1. To me it sounds like he’s just nervous and is trying to be respectful. Also I think you should tell him straight up what you want, it seems that when you tell him directly then he feels more comfortable

  2. I just made a post in a sort of similar situation, but from the other side.

    Just to share my experience, it’s likely he very much cares for you and finds you incredibly beautiful, and just struggles to reach climax with other people. If you feel comfortable you could ask him about it, just taking care to be empathic as he probably feels embarrassed.

  3. Inexperienced, or nervous, or used to cuming in a particular way, or hooked on porn, etc. Whatever the case…..the “problem” is his, not yours.

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