I’m a first time dater, I’ve never been on one. I was on tinder and I was talking to a girl who I know of as she’s from my area. My friend took my phone and asked her on a date.
Problem I have is that the girl is lovely but I don’t have any feelings towards her I don’t feel anything and it makes me feel like a bad person I want to go on the date for experience for the future but I feel bad that’s all I’ll be needing the girl for. I’m not a horrible person and the girl is nice and who knows maybe I’ll like her when I meet her? Should I just see how things go and see what happens or should I make an excuse to tell her I can’t see her?
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Go and see. One date won’t hurt either of you unless she’s nuts. If you don’t feel it, when she asks for another just say that you don’t feel a connection but wish her well
You haven’t even met. Go and meet her, if it is awful you can always end it sooner. Be polite though.
All the best.
You are very much over thinking this.
Feel it out. Go. Share yourself and try to connect with someone.
Stop over analyzing, it’ll only set you back.