Me and my gf are both early 20’s and strictly monogamous. We have a very very good sex life. My girlfriend was timid sexually/inexperienced but has become really slutty and amazingly comfortable since we got together. I love how open we’ve gotten and how much we explored. We make loads of videos and pictures. Outside of us, my porn preferences are gangbang, mmf, cuckhold, wife sharing, blowbangs etc. And I would LOVE to share her, have her blow me and another cock etc. I love showing her off and fantasising about this.
We’re open but I’m not sure how I’d communicate this.
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just be open with it and tell her that you would love that Do you watch porn together ?
Talk to her.
Check out r/nonmonogamy and r/swingers .
You have to talk to her.
If the two of you watch porn already, consider watching some sort of wifesharing porn – preferably amateur stuff, not the overdone pro bullshit where they pretend it’s a wife and it’s lots of over the top kink talk and fake positions and such. Just a ice clip of a real wife in a real threesome or sharing situation.
If she responds positively, bring it up in a non sexual situation. “Hey, we both really seemed to enjoy that porn. I was wondering if you would ever consider actually doing something like that if you knew that I was into it?” Go from there.
Be prepared for her to turn you down flat. Be prepared for her to maybe have interest but to need time (weeks, months) to process it and determine that you aren’t setting her up in a trap or using this as a way to get to fuck other women.
Not gonna lie it’s a whole diffrent world when both are fine with it
Talk to her and start slow. Some things sound great in our head, not IRL