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Ask her out and find out.
Confidently ask her out.
“Would you like to go out for something eat after class/work on (insert day) at (insert place)”
Most of the time it is really this easy.
Seriously – generally most women will not approach a guy and initiate. It does happen and fine if it does. Just understand as guy you can’t wait for it to happen. You will need to put some effort in on your part and take some risk. Hope is not a plan. You need to size up the situation and pick your battles of course. If she seems nice and you’re feeling some level of mutual attractiveness and is willing to talk to you, text you, or interact with your sm that’s really all the sign you need to decide if you want to shoot your shot.
Flirt, and then ask out. If they seem reluctant to even give number – then they are being nice and probably feeling pressure to give number out of compulsion but not out of interest. Just stop if that is the case and thank them for their time and move on
Telling the difference between flirtatiousness and just being nice can be exceedingly difficult sometimes depending on the woman. It’s really all in the body language. The body language never lies.
Some women also have it in their heads that they expect guys to pick up on “hints” when those hints can be as vanishingly small as a fart in a fan factory. When In doubt, just ask.