So ever since middle school, I’ve been straightening/tensing my legs to cum, but it’s a habit I’m trying to get out of. I guess it worked when I was single and using a vibrator, but now that I’m in a relationship, it’s getting in the way. With my boyfriend between my legs, it’s hard to straighten my legs, and then 99% of the time, tensing my legs causes my muscles to start cramping & then I have to relax my legs and can’t cum at all even if it feels great. I want to be able to cum with my legs in the air, untensed, because that would be easiest, but for some reason if I’m not tensing my body/legs, it would either take forever to cum or I might not cum at all. Only time I can cum with my legs in the air is if he’s penetrating me at the same time, with fingers, but it isn’t very comfortable for him to do while he’s going down on me.
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Any advice/tips?
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I have the same issue
I’m the same! If I’m diagonal on the bed, there is often enough length for me to have straight legs and for him to be between my legs for licking. Good luck!
Wrap your heels around his legs and let the tension flow that way. Also, he’ll love it.
I’m the same but I realized it’s because I enjoy the feeling of being pinned down/restrained.
But I also get off to pinning down and restraining the guys I sleep with. (With mounting them riding them and choking them and slapping them- I enjoy the same done to me).
You might be naturally submissive and can try something along the lines of having your BF to kinda “take you” like a “you’re my woman” “I’ll have you now”.
But you would have to be into it and he would have to be into it and also try a safe word just in case one of you begins to feel uncomfortable.