How does your partner try to initiate sex? Do they think they being subtle?

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1. I’m usually saying it. No reason to be subtle imo

2. By turning over 😂

3. He knows he’s not subtle about it and I wouldn’t have it any other way, he’ll either grab my butt or just tells me he wants it lol

4. My partner doesn’t initiate sex…so I cum to reddit

5. Resting on the couch with my fully clothed wife drapped over me, I moved my hand up under her shirt. She complained “Your hand is cold!” So I instead placed my hand between her legs and started gently massaging the vicinity of her clit. She never stopped looking at Facebook on her phone. I gave up.

   It sucks, but I literally have to walk in naked to get her attention.

6. My ex would be getting ready for dinner. Knee high boots, perfect hair and make up. Nice cashmere shirt. No skirt or panties. act like I caught her between the bathroom and closet and run wanting me to chase her.

   I would get out of the shower and drop the towel. She liked it when I would just take her. She liked to be held down.

7. My wife will usually walk around the house totally naked with a smile on her face to get my attention, lol.

8. I have a fetish ? of seeing my wife in the shortest little mini skirts known to the world (like so short, she’d never wear em outside of the house!) and sometimes she’ll put one of those miniskirts on (no panties underneath), midriff tanktop and high heels and strut over to me. She’s absolutely not being subtle, but wow am I ready to get down with her like immediately when she walks in all scantily clad like that. But sometimes she’ll just smooch me and hug me and reach for my penis, and that too initiates it from her end.

9. Just came here to say this is an underrated post. When in a long term relationship (married or not) I’m curious how couples initiate sex. Physically, vocally, passively or aggressively. It’s not talked about enough. So of what’s behind this is how to initiate without getting turned down, which isn’t 100% possible but I think that is often the question behind the question. Even still how and who gets the party started does often set the tone for that experience. I’ll be keeping an eye on this for awhile