I(22F) have been sexually active for the past 2 years. But I have never been able to cum with anything. This one time at the beginning of 2021, I felt I did, but I am not sure.
For context, It has always been this one person I had sex with. He is more than appropriate for how long a penis should be and lasts for an hour, at least. Sex between us is a little infrequent, sometimes it’s 2-3 times a week or sometimes we go a month without it(During the period we have arguments going or we aren’t speaking to each other). We try kinks together, so it’s not either.
I use vibratory for clitoris during masturbation, and it makes me horny but never pushes me to climax.
One reason I felt is, I am little insecure about the way I look as I am in overweight catagory, but I am super proud of how much I have reduced myself from before and of my features in general.
Please help, I want to orgasm so bad at this point of time.
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Sex therapist would be an option. r/becomingorgasmic may be a good subreddit as well.