Hey folks,
Need advice/opinions from y’all on this situation.
I’m 36M, divorce pending, matched with a woman on bumble, and had a fantastic first date. We met for dinner at a restaurant, and it lasted for like 3.5 hours. And it was all organic/fun conversation. Texted her after getting home, and we both agreed to meet again.
We texted a bit the next morning, and decided to watch the football game together later on the same day. We met at her friends’ place, and had a few drinks. And then went over to a house party where she had a lot of her friends. It was again super fun (had good laughter etc with her friends too), and I took off in the evening. She was warm, said bye, dropped me to my car and it was a good day (at least I thought so).
That was 2 weeks back, we still exchange texts every now and then, but she ignored my message about hanging out. Some of my friends say she’s not interested and that’s why she hung out with her friends on the second day vs. making it a date. Other friends say the first date must’ve been really good, and that’s why she introduced me to her friends. I’m just so confused! What do y’all think?
Is it clingy to ask her what really happened and if I said/did something that irked her?
Edit: I’m genuinely interested in getting to know her more. It was by far the best first date I’ve had (even though there was no sex). Looking for tips on what to do next!
PS: I’m coming out of a 15 years old relationship, and only been online dating the last 6 months. Is online dating always so confusing and stressful?
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Sorry, find someone else.