I have this weird kink that I don’t understand

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1. Heard worse kinks haha

2. I have the same kink for me it more of a dominating feeling. To have someone completely naked and sorta vulnerable is such an incredible feeling and gets me going like nothing else.

3. It’s not that weird.

4. This is called CMNF (clothed male, nude female) there are subs for it.

5. I have the same kink about women. Something about fucking with clothes on screams, “I can’t wait to fuck you”

6. This is actually a fairly normal one that goes both ways. “CFNM and CMNF” are searchable

7. i fantasize about this a lot, and find it fun to be in all sorts of undress during intimacy.

   im very turned on by a partner being very turned on. so for me, this is some mixture of enjoying to so obviously be somebody’s play thing and then also a desperate need to have you/them. cant even be bothered to remove the clothes!

   i think a lot of people have this kink because look at strip clubs haha. which ironically i don’t like at all

8. This is actually extremely common, especially in BDSM and D/S. If you want porn to watch, almost any BDSM scenes (if you like BDSM anyway) produced by larger companies fit this exact description, I’d actually say it’s the standard. Searching “clothed male” or “CMNF” will also give quite a few non-BDSM results.

9. It’s a pretty common kink! Nothing weird about it

   For some it’s a power fantasy thing where being naked, vulnerable, and exposed before a partner fully clothed almost feels like a status thing.

   For others an exhibitionist thing where it’s less the power dynamic and more the contrast of feeling liberated and open, maybe that them being clothed and you being naked is empowering. Like a subtle psychological nod to clothes being an expression of politeness and civility, nudity then conveying a freedom not adhering to that so you sort of “bring out” that urge in your partner.

   Any number of things or reasons, lots of them really fun! Certainly not weird

10. All of the correct answer is already here, I just want to add that life is short and there are no ‘weird’ kinks. Embrace whatever gets your motor going and find a partner that supports that. When you and your partner are experiencing and pushing those boundaries you unlock an entirely new level of intimacy and fulfillment that truly open your eyes in a profound way.

11. I go in and out of kinks, but I distinctly remember having this one when I was younger. My gf basically gave me a strip tease show while I sat in a chair. She rubbed her fully naked body on my fully clothed body, and I pretty much came in my pants.

12. There are so many kinks out there, there doesn’t have to be any psychological reason behind everything, kinda like I like chocolate and strawberry ice cream, others prefer vanilla, that simple 🙂 (and I don’t think a guy will have much problems with that kink😉)
    Enjoy yourself and have a lot of much fun sex!😉

13. pretty common one tbh

14. On the kink range of things I am not sure this can count as even a bit remotely weird. Don’t think too much, just go for it. It won’t hurt anyone, it isn’t dangerous etc. Although I don’t have this kink, I can assure you plenty of others will and it is not something that would be scary for a partner.

15. My wife is like this she wants me fully clothed and she wants to be naked and set on my face but I also have a kink like that but I love her to be fully clothed setting on my face or doing anything to me

16. My husband 100% would prefer for me to be clothed in some sort of lingerie as often as physically possible. At the very minimum a tank top and thong. If I get into bed naked he is so disappointed.

    I’m the opposite. I hate it when he leaves a shirt on or just pulls himself out of his boxes. I would prefer he get totally naked.

    Different people have different desires.

17. When myself and my (now ex) gf were new, I was about to go to work, and she suggested (once and only time) to have a quickie.
    I started to get undressed, and she insisted no, keep it on.
    We had our fun, I zipped up and went to work. It was exciting and fun, and I understand what you mean.

18. My wife has the same one! She loves being totally nude while I’m dressed and I rub her out or eat her out. I never thought it was weird at all!