Men what was the dumbest thing you have done to your crush that has pushed her away rather than getting her close?

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1. back when i was young, i was crazy about this girl….you might say “obsessed”.

   i smothered and showered her with gifts, compliments, always wanted to know what she was thinking…and worst of all, ugh–i tried to FIX HER.

   i believed i was in love. actually, i really, REALLY wanted to touch her incredible, amazing boobs and see her naked.

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   these were all horrible behaviors that i’ve long since changed.

   well…apart from wanting to touch boobs and see good looking women naked. afraid that condition is chronic! 🙂

2. The first night I met her, I got drunk and called her fat…

   Strangely enough, she still seemed to like me afterwards. Though she quickly lost weight in the following months, went down to a more normal weight. I’ve always wondered if it was because of what I said, or if she had planned to do it anyway. The irony though is that I much preferred her when she was chubby.

   Unfortunately it went nowhere, because I was too shy to really make a move, and I assumed her attitude to me was just friendly. But when I think back about it now, maybe there were some signs of interest, I don’t know.

3. Ask her out on a date knowing she has a boyfriend.

4. Simped

5. Opened up too much about my problems and feelings. Acted like an idiot when I drank too much. Mortified and still miss her everyday.

6. I’ll let you know. I’m asking her out next time I see her. I fully expect to get a “no” but that low expectation will make it not hurt so much.