(28F)(38M) I need to figure out what this was!! I want it to happen again .
So he went in me, then kept pushing his way inside until it got as deep as it could go. But he didn’t thrust after that. He kept his dick inside me like he lived there. He was moving it around inside of me but was not pulling out or thrusting.
It felt like nothing I experienced before but I haven’t had many GOOD sexual experiences so maybe this is normal and I’ve been missing out.
It felt like I could feel sex throughout my body. It wasn’t intense but it felt different. Almost like my soul was sitting just outside of my body or like I was in a different universe for a short moment. I didn’t orgasm but it was so pleasurable, I didn’t care. It just felt like my entire body and mind was being made love to. I could feel pleasure in my skin and all through my legs and arms and mind.
I need to know. Is this bc he wasn’t thrusting? I’ve never felt this before and when I think about it, I feel like I’m falling in love with everything about him, especially his dick
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My guess, you were breathing deeply. Enjoying the moment.
Guys going slowly intensifies feelings.
All good. With enough build up that will happen again
I get really strong pleasure from subtle pressure at the back of my vaginal canal, and can sometimes come from someone just sitting there not moving. It’s a really great sensation. I don’t why I find it so exquisite but who cares, just enjoy.
Awesome thing me and my husband do if one of us calls for a break, if either of us is on top, he stays inside of me, he just slowly moves his hips around and it’s amazing to feel
I’m thinking cervical simulation. The way you described how he went deeply then moved slowly sounds like his penis was rubbing your cervix. Some women find it to be the Holy Grail of out-of-this-world sexual experience, some find cervical stimulation really painful. Sounds like you like it.
It might be the “A-spot” or anterior fornix, an area by the cervix that can have “g-spot” effects. Google it and see if it fits the description!
I don’t really have anything to add other than I know what you felt. I get the same feeling with my husband, and it’s only happened with him. We’ve been together for 10yrs but that whole body feeling just started about 2yrs ago. I love it when it happens. If you do happen do orgasm during one of these sessions, it may be the best orgasm of your life. The thing is though, I can’t make/force it to happen. It just does sometimes and I am over the moon when it occurs. It’s nothing like I have ever felt in my life. Sometimes I get fukk body chills, but in a good way.
Could be that he hit your anterior or posterior fornix, which are the front and back sides of your vagina that go past the cervical opening. I was sleeping with a guy who had a pretty girthy member and I remember him just slowly pushing himself in and making slow, short strokes while he had all of me pinned between the corner of my sofa and his body haha. It was driving me crazy and made me want to cum right there and then every time he moved.
I’m currently dating a guy whose dick is about 1/3 the size of the previous dude and was wondering if I could replicate that deep dicking sensation with him as well. Happy to report dick size is not a problem, in the right position it feels just as amazing and I get that super satisfying filled up feeling. It’s like his dick is giving me a big hug from the inside, haha. The mating press aka missionary with legs on shoulders is really good for this. I know for most people that’s the hammering down pose, but it can feel amazing when the guy pushes his hips real close to get in deep and just leans over you to start kissing you and dicking you down slowly. 🤣 *starts humming Tenacious D’s Fuck Her Gently*
I’m 38 as well and have been exploring my sexuality after ending an 11 year relationship/marriage. It’s amazing what you discover about yourself when you feel like you can just express yourself without judgement and have an adventurous partner who loves seeing you shine. Enjoy!!
Hahaha hahaha!!!!!! None of these previous comments have gotnit right but I know exactly what he was doing because I do it —!!!!!!!
” I feel like I’m falling in love with everything about him, especially his dick ” this is a work of art
Read the Heart of Tantric Sex, you are experiencing the beginning of a heart orgasm by creating an energy circuit of love with you partner 🙂
He was probably hitting your a-spot.
My wife really does not like me to thrust that much at all. And, if so, very very shallow thrusts. And/or very very slow methodical thrusts.
She loves for me to basically go as deep as possible and then “move” but not withdraw at all. Just stay in as far as possible and move around.
I am sure I am massaging her g-spot and a-spot.
It is a game changer.
Porn and even society want us to believe that fast thrusting is the only way to have sex. It is not.
May I ask what position you’re in?
With my girlfriend in prone bone and sometimes doggy she’ll tell me to not move after I am all the way in all the way, the she has some pretty awesome orgasms. This happens after normal strokes then I’ll take a few where I push deeper carefully. That’s when she’ll say don’t move.
One of my exes came insanely fast from A-spot stimulation. It was an entirely different experience for her (and me) since she’d never previously orgasmed from PIV sex. Once we figured it out it was kind of a game changer since it was a sure thing for her.
Congrats on your new guy and your new experience.
I’m 27M, and this has been a fantasy of mine to do this casually while playing videogames with her or watching TV with her in my lap. I just think it’s a great way to be intimate without much effort or performance anxiety. Sadly I don’t think I’d last long even if there wasn’t a lot of movement, and especiallynot if she started grinding.
Guys .. I learned this one by reading my wife’s reaction to different rhythms and patterns and asked her about it after.
For many girls, depending on the situation it is most certainly NOT about thrusting. While it feels good, getting inside her, not thrusting but rocking using your upper dick area as skin on skin for her clit and surrounding areas to grind on her. Your dick all the way inside and you sliding up and down or around to stimulate her clit and other sensitive bits. Kiss her neck, nibble her lips, if she likes it hold her firmly where she prefers maybe even on her neck or pulling her hair.
My wife can come from this technique relatively easy.
So many people talk about hard fast pounding, but someone getting in there and just barely moving, barely, it’s like it makes me feel everything so much more intensely. Like he moves a centimeter, and I whimper.
Love it.