Hey reddit people,
This is my story.. We are a mid 30s Asian couple with 2 kids.. It has been years that I feel mood swing whenever my wife rejects my request..
I am not sure if it is my skills or D problem, throughout the years my wife only can get orgasm via clitoral.. My wife’s favorite foreplay is pussy massage (not kissing or licking nipples).. She enjoy I licks her vagina but she doesnt allow most of the time (with the reason it is dirty?) .. And she only allowed penetration after climax (or else she feels pain, yet doesnt allow lubrication).. I love & respect who she is, but whenever I got rejected, my mind always looking for solutions.. She blames IUD disturbs her hormone.. We both are young healthy couple who likes sports with perfect BMI..
Do you all face similar situation and how you all live with it? My current sexual desire is 1-2 days once and my wife doesn’t seem to keep up.. I tried to masturbate, it works on hormone balancing but I feel pity to myself who got wife but the sexual tempo is different.. In my mind, my wife is the sole legal partner that can have sexual activities and yet she is a bit underperformed..
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May be you should talk with her?