My girlfriend kissed her best friend when she was drunk a couple months ago. She had no recollection of this happening, and found out when her best friend told her last night that that took place between them. My girlfriend claims that’s a boundary she would never cross with her best friend if she were sober, and wouldn’t ever see her “in that way”. She proceeded to tell me about what happened right after she heard it from her. My girlfriend is also bisexual, and her and I have been dating for almost a year. When her best friend told her boyfriend about what happened, he got upset. For some reason, I’m not really mad about what happened. Should I be? And since she did this while she was drunk, should she be held “liable” for it or not, since she has no conscious recollection of it?
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>And since she did this while she was drunk, should she be held “liable” for it or not, since she has no conscious recollection of it?
So, because she can’t remember it would have been totally fine if she kissed another dude. Or slept with him or did that with 20 dudes during an evening, is that really an excuse you want to give her dude?
>For some reason, I’m not really mad about what happened. Should I be?
That is pretty much up to yourself to figure out.
You know what is implied here? That might cheat on you properly when she is drunk.
I can agree it is not about her being unfaithful, but is about her not controling her own actions when drunk. So you should ask to not get drunk except in Completely safe environment or with you around.
There are already too many stories about blackbout cheating on this sub, don’t add your own to the pile.
If you are not bothered by this, why are you looking for random strangers to give you a reason to be upset?