My friends are never there for me

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1. That’s really rough. I bet it feels like you’re never heard?

   Use this time to think about yourself: what do you expect in a friendship?

   Sometimes it’s hard to set boundaries when you don’t know what you want from a friend. This is a good time to think about it.

   I remember I used to use my friends because I was in a bad place. One of my friends called me out on it, and understood I was having a hard time but he laid out his expectations. I was upset. I was mad.

   Two weeks later, I called him and apologized. He’s my best friend today. I am happy I had a friend confront me and explain what hurt them because without it, I wouldn’t know how to be a better friend.